Blog #14 What can a woman do to reduce her risk of assault?

It is very upsetting to me that women are being victimized of assault at such high numbers. Unfortunately as humans we do not live in crime free, picture perfect world but instead we live in a world where women are the target of assault. As women we need to stand together and learn ways to prevent and reduce our risk of assault. Whether the assault is sexual, physical, emotional, or psychological it is still wrong. It is sad to think that we may all know of somebody who at one time who has been assaulted or a victim of violence. Supporting one another and reaching out to those who have no where to go should be our goal because at any time we could be put into this situation. The type of assault that I would like to discuss is sexual assault because women are becoming victims of this type of assault in such high numbers. It’s upsetting to know that men use sexual assault including rape to feel dominate and in control. It especially concerns me because as college student’s reports of sexual assault happening on college campuses are at staggering rates. The best thing that we can do as a woman is becoming aware and taking extra steps to prevent and reduce are risk of becoming somebody’s next target. I think the best thing we can do is become aware of our surroundings and remaining aware of areas that may be high risk areas and avoid going to those areas or if you must go, go with a group of people. Also, try not to single yourself out from a crowd and get to know the people you are with well especially if you are meeting someone new and look out for the warning signs including aggression, and temper. If you do decide to go out with or go on a date with somebody new try going out on a group date because unfortunately women make themselves more vulnerable when they single themselves out. If you decide to go out whether to a party, to a bar, on a date, etc. and drinking will be involved make sure you get your own drinks, cover them at all times, and never set them down. If you accidentally set your drink down get yourself a new drink, this will significantly reduce your risk of getting slipped a "date rape drug." Again, don't forget to go out with a group of people rather than alone!. Other ways to prevent our risk of sexual assault is to always carry your cell phone or even pepper spray with you when alone or walking to your car and always have your keys out and ready. Don’t forget to walk confidently because you reduce your risk of making yourself a target when you make these simple changes, as well as you prepare yourself for the “just in case” moments. Don’t forget to take advantage of asking a security guard or police officer on duty to walk you to your car if it’s is late at night, or a poorly lit area, or if you just feel more comfortable. Police officers and security guards are there to protect you and make you feel safer. Before I forget the #1 thing that I would suggest that is helpful not only to help reduce your risk of sexual assault but for all other unfortunate circumstances is to let someone you trust such as your parents, siblings, husbands, wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, friends, etc. where you will be because if something were to happen they can call for help or help get you out of a sticky situation. Also, prepare yourself mentally for what you would do if you were to be put into an uncompromising situation. Preparation is your biggest tool because nobody thinks that sexual assault would happen to them, unfortunately I bet women who have been victimized thought the same thing.  Remember, if you or someone you know has been a victim of assault that it is NOT your fault, and seek help for yourself and for all the other women who are victimized by these crimes.

-Brittany LeBron